Monogamous katsi: katsi inosarudza sei munhu wayo

Kana katsi ikaonekwa mumba, inogara iri mufaro kune vese vemhuri uye kutanga kwehupenyu hutsva hwemhuka. Mumwedzi yekutanga, katsi inoratidza zvido zvayo: inosarudza nzvimbo yaunofarira muimba, chido chekuda uye mudiwa. Uye dzimwe nguva zvakaoma zvikuru kunzwisisa nemaitiro api sarudzo inogadzirwa.

Katsi inosarudza sei chipfuyo mumba

Pane maonero ekuti makati haafanire kunyanyobatanidzwa nevanhu, kuti vanozvimiririra uye "vanofamba vari voga", asi izvi hazvisizvo. Nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, runako runoputika ruchaziva mudiwa wake uye runotanga kuratidza kutarisisa kwaari: kukumbira maoko ake, kumutevera nemuswe wake, edza kumuchengeta. Chisarudzo chinowanzowira kwete kune nhengo yemhuri inodyisa kati uye kuchenesa tireyi yake, asi pamunhu anotora chikamu chikuru muhupenyu hwake. Kutamba nemhuka, kutaura uye mamwe mabasa akabatanidzwa kunounza pamwe chete uye kuumba hukama hwakasimba hwepfungwa pakati pekati nemuridzi wayo. 

Zviratidzo zverudo mumakati

Kuti unzwisise kuti ndeupi weimba iyo kati inoda zvakanyanya, zvakakwana kutarisa maitiro. Chipfuwo chinoratidza rudo rwacho munzira dzakawanda:

• anotevera murume wake pazvitsitsinho, anoedza kupedza nguva yakawanda naye sezvinobvira;
• anogadzirisa maitiro emuridzi - anoenda kunorara uye anomuka naye;
• anopuruzira uye anotsika-tsika pamunhu waanoda;
• inokubvumira kuita maitiro asingafadzi, akadai sekugeza nekucheka misumari;
• shuwa panguva yekushaikwa kwemunhu uyu nezvimwe zvakadaro.

Panguva imwecheteyo, kunyange kana katsi inofarira ikasiya kwenguva yakareba, haazomukanganwi uye acharatidza mufaro pamusangano.

Nzira yekuwana sei rudo rwekatsi

Kana, mushure mekuonekwa kwekati mumba, zvinova pachena kuti chipfuwo hachiratidzi manzwiro ekudziya kwauri, unogona kuedza kuwana rudo rwake. Kuti uite izvi, unofanirwa kutevera mimwe mitemo:

• usamanikidzire uye upe pet nguva yekuzivana;
• teerera katsi, taurirana, taura naye, tamba;
• musanhonga mhuka isingadi;
• shandisa zvinwiwa zvaunofarira
• ratidza hanya uye mwoyo murefu.

Izvo zvakakosha kuti fluffy pet inzwe yakadzikama uye yakachengeteka mukambani yekumba. Izvi zvichabatsira kugadzira hukama hunodziya uye hunoenderana mumhuri. 

Onawo:

• Chii chinonzi katsi inoda kuita kuti uwane pfungwa dzako?
• Nzira yekunzwisisa mutauro wekati uye kutaura nemhuka yako
• Katsi inganzwisisa kutaura kwevanhu here?