Sei vanhu vachiwana imbwa?

Hazvigoneki kuti zvichazombobvira kuverenga kuti imbwa ngani pasi rese dzinogara mumhuri semhuka dzinovaraidza. Zvisinei, zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti nhamba yembwa iri kuramba ichiwedzera gore negore. Panguva imwecheteyo, kuchengetedza mhuka kunobatanidzwa nematambudziko akawanda. Sei vanhu vachiwana imbwa?

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Imbwa sechikamu chehurongwa hwemhuri

Mu psychology, kune nhungamiro inonzi "systemic family therapy". Vateveri veiyi nhungamiro vanofunga mhuri sehurongwa, imwe neimwe nhengo iri chinhu chayo, ichiita mamwe mabasa kugadzirisa matambudziko akakosha. Uyezve, mhuri imwe neimwe inogadzirisa matambudziko maviri:

1. Development.
2. Kuchengetedza kugadzikana (homeostasis).

Kana chimwe chezvinhu zvehurongwa chichichinja, hurongwa hwese hunochinja. Uye izvi hazvidzivisiki, nokuti zvinhu zvose zvehurongwa (nhengo dzemhuri) dzinogara dzichipindirana pamwe chete uye nekunze kwenyika, kunyange kana isingazvizivi nguva dzose.

Chii nembwa, iwe unobvunza? Icho chokwadi ndechekuti imbwa zvakare izere-yakazara zvinhu zvemhuri system, kunyangwe isu tichida kana kwete.

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Imbwa inoita basa rei mumhuri?

Anna Varga, Systemic Family Therapist, anozivisa mabasa matatu anogona kuitwa nembwa mumhuri:

1. Substitution. Somuenzaniso, vana vanokura, uye vabereki vanotora kambwanana kuti vamuchengete pamwe chete.
2. Kuparadzana kwepwere. Imbwa dzimwe nguva inobatsira wechidiki "kudzivirira" rusununguko, hukama hunokosha hunoumbwa nayo, iyo inogona kuva muenzaniso wemhuri yeramangwana yayo.
3. Mutori wechikamu che "triangle" (triangulation). Somuenzaniso, kana kukakavara kukavamba pakati pemurume nomudzimai, vanoita kuti imbwa ive ne“kupindirana” uye/kana kuti nyaya dzine ngozi dzokutaura nezvadzo, pamwe chete nokugadza chinhambwe chinogamuchirika, izvo zvinoderedza mwero wokusawirirana mumhuri.

Ndicho chikonzero kuonekwa kwembwa mumhuri hakusi kwengozi. Kazhinji puppy kana imbwa yakakura inoonekwa panguva iyo mhuri iri mumatambudziko uye kugadzikana kunodiwa. Uye kuti unzwisise kuti imbwa inobata sei mumhuri, zvakakosha kuziva kuti chii chakatangira kuonekwa kwayo.

Chokwadi, vamwe vanhu vanogona kuita mabasa ose aya. Semuenzaniso, vana vanowanzokweverwa mu "triangles". Asi vanhu vachiri zvisikwa zvakaoma kudzora. Imbwa chisikwa chine hupenyu hunodzorwa zvachose nemuridzi.

Basa rembwa mumhuri rinogona kuchinja nekufamba kwenguva - zvinoenderana nedanho rekukura kwemhuri uye pahukama pakati pemitezo yayo.