Katsi yakachinja hupenyu hwangu sei

Gore rakapfuura, apo Hilary Wise akatora katsi Lola, akanga asati aziva kuti upenyu hwake hwaizochinja zvakadini.

Mhuri yaHilary yagara iine mhuka dzinovaraidza, uye aigara nadzo zvakanaka kubvira achiri muduku. Aida kupfekedza katsi muhembe dzevana, uye ivo vaizvida.

Iye zvino, anodaro Hilary, hukama hunokosha nerunako ruduku runomubatsira kurarama nefunganyo dzemazuva ose.

Hupenyu "pamberi"

Hilary asati atora Lola kubva kushamwari yake yakanga ichibva mudunhu, akanzwa kuti "kushushikana kwake kwaiwedzera: kubasa uye muhukama." Akateerera zvakanyanya kuongororwa kwevamwe, kunyanya paakanzwa kuti "kushamisika" kwake kwaimutadzisa kubatana nevanhu.

Hilary anoti, “Paiva nezvinhu zvakawanda zvisina kunaka muupenyu hwangu, asi zvino zvandava naLola, hapasisina nzvimbo yokuita zvinhu zvisina kunaka. Akandidzidzisa zvakawanda zvokutsungirira uye zvakawanda zvokusafuratira.”

Hilary anoti chakanyanya kumuchinja inzira yaiita Lola muupenyu. Achiona kuti shamwari yake ine furry yakadzikama sei inotarisa nyika, musikana zvishoma nezvishoma anobvisa kushushikana.

Hilary anotsanangura kuti chakamubatsira zvikuru kwaiva kukwanisa kwake kutsva “kushivirira nokufuratira”, semuenzaniso, kuongororwa kwevamwe. “Zvinhu zvaiita sezvinokosha kwandiri zvisati zvangoshanduka,” anodaro achinyemwerera. “Ndakamira ndofunga, zvine basa here kugumbuka nenyaya iyi? Nei pakutanga zvaiita sezvinokosha zvakadaro?”

Hilary, anoshongedza zvitoro, anotenda kuti pesvedzero yakanaka yaLola yakabata zvese zvehupenyu hwake. Musikana anofarira kushanda muchitoro chinotengesa zvishongo uye zvipo zvakasiyana. Iri basa rinomubvumira kuratidza hunyanzvi uye kushandisa mazano ekutanga.

“Ndaiwanzoteerera pfungwa dzevamwe,” anobvuma kudaro Hilary. "Zvino, kunyangwe Lola asipo, ndinoramba ndiri ini."

nhengo yemhuri

Hilary nemukomana wake Brandon pavakatanga kutora Lola, vaifanira kuhwina rudo rwake.

Tabby, katsi inotapira, yaingova nemakore matatu panguva iyoyo, yakanga isina ushamwari uye isina hanya nevanhu (zvichida, Hilary anotenda, muridzi wekare haana kumuteerera zvakakwana), zvakasiyana sedenga nenyika kubva hushamwari, katsi inoshingaira kwaakatendeuka.

Panguva iyoyo, Hilary akanga ava nemakore masere achigara asina katsi, asi unyanzvi hwake hwokutarisira mhuka dzinovaraidza hwakakurumidza kudzoka kwaari. Akatanga kuhwina Lola uye akafunga kuswedera pakuvaka hukama uhwu hunotyisa nebasa rese. “Ndaidawo kuti anditeerere,” anodaro Hilary. "Ipa katsi yako nguva, uye iye achakupindura zvakafanana." Anotenda kuti mhuka dzinovaraidza hadzifanire kudzidziswa rudo uye kutamba, zvakakwana "kungova" navo. Makati anoda kutariswa uye anogona kuita marudzi ese ezvinhu kana akasazviwana.

Munguva yekuvaka hukama, Hilary aigara achipuruzira Lola uye aitaura naye zvakanyanya. “Anogara achiteerera inzwi rangu, kunyanya pandinoimba naye.”

Lola akazopedzisira ava katsi ine tsika. Haachatyi vanhu. Anokwazisa nemufaro Hilary naBrandon pamusuwo wepamberi uye anoda kuti vatarise, kunyanya kana vakavhiringidzika. “Kana ndichitaura nemumwe munhu, Lola anosvetukira pamakumbo angu oita ruzha,” Hilary anoseka. Lola anobatanidzwa kune vamwe vanhu kupfuura vamwe (senge chero katsi inozviremekedza). Anonzwa kana paine “munhu wake” pedyo naye uye, maererano nomusikana wacho, anoita nhamburiko dzokumuita kuti anzwewo “anokosha”.

ushamwari nokusingaperi

Nekufamba kwenguva, Lola akatanga kufarira kukanda kweshaggy kunoshandiswa naHilary naBrandon kuvhara sofa, uye anoburitsa pachena kuti haadi kuti ribviswe. Vechidiki vakatozobvumirana nenyaya yekuti iyo plaid yave chikamu chakakosha chemukati mavo, pamwe nemabhegi egirosari emapepa nemhando dzese dzemabhokisi, nekuti kana runako runyoro rwakatora kodzero yake kune chero chinhu, ipapo iye achaita. usazvirega. Never!

Hilary anodada zvine musoro kuti akakwanisa kuvaka hukama naLola, uye anobvuma kuti hupenyu hwake husina shamwari ine furry hungave hwakasiyana. “Katsi dzine ushamwari [kupfuura vanhu],” musikana wacho anorangarira kudaro. “Vanobata zvinhu zvidiki nemaonero akanaka” uye havazvidavire zvinorwadza sezvaiita Hilary. Kana hupenyu husati hwasvika Lola huchionekwa nekushungurudzika kwemuviri uye mupfungwa, saka muhupenyu naLola pane nzvimbo yekunakidzwa nyore - kurara pagumbeze rinotonhorera kana kunyura zuva.

Kuvapo kwekatsi mumba kunobata sei hupenyu hwako? Chii chinoita kuti uchinje maitiro ako zvakanyanya kana uine chipfuwo? Hutano hwake. Hilary akarega kusvuta asati atora Lola uye haasati ambodzokera pakupindwa muropa kwake nekuti iye zvino ane katsi inomubvisa kushushikana kwake.

Kuna Hilary, kuchinja uku kwakaitika zvishoma nezvishoma. Asati ava naLola, haana kufunga nezvokuti fodya yaimubatsira kubvisa kushushikana. “Akangorega kunetseka kuchiitika” uye “kupfuurira noupenyu hwake” nokuramba achisvuta. Uye ipapo Lola akaonekwa, uye kudiwa kwefodya kwakanyangarika.

Hilary anocherekedza kuti hazvibviri kufungidzira kuti zvinoshamisa sei zvese zvakatenderedza zvakave nekuonekwa kwaLola. Pakutanga kwehukama hwavo, maitiro akanaka ainyanya kutaurwa, "asi zvino vanongova chikamu chehupenyu hwezuva nezuva."

Iye zvino Lola zvaakava chikamu chinokosha cheupenyu hwaHilary, musikana wacho ava kugadzikana mupfungwa. Hilary anoti: “Zvinosuruvarisa kana usingakwanisi kuva iwe pachako. “Zvino handisi kuvanza chimiro changu.”

Uchishandisa muenzaniso waHilary naLola, munhu anogona kugutsikana kuti katsi mumba haisi kungogara pamwe chete kwemunhu nemhuka. Uku kuvaka hukama hunochinja hupenyu hwako hwese, nekuti katsi inoda muridzi wayo nezvaari.