Personal Therapist – Katsi Martin

Kutanga kusangana

Pane imwe nguva, mwanasikana Irina akandiudza pafoni: "Amai, chishamiso chakakumirirai kumba ..."

Pandaityaira ndichienda kumba, ndakaramba ndichifunga kuti chingava chii. Uye pandakangoyambuka chikumbaridzo, ndakabva ndamuona - kamwana kadiki katsvuku kaine maziso makuru ebhuruu. Uye zvakatenderedza - matireyi, mbiya, mabhora akasiyana, mabhora ...

Ndinoyeuka ndichitora katsi mumaoko ake, uye Ira akandiudza nezvehupenyu hwake hwakaoma, mwedzi wakareba. Martin wedu ndiye akatanga. Vanhu vane mutsa vakanhonga bundu risina kusurukirwa mumugwagwa ndokuriendesa kunzvimbo yekugara katsi. Kubva ipapo, Ira akatora katsi.

Uyezve, varongi vepokugara kwenguva yakareba vaifarira kuguma kwevakanunurwa, vakapindura mibvunzo yedu yese, vakapa zano rekuchengeta katsi, kumujairira kune tireyi, kuendesa kubva mukaka formula kune chikafu chakasimba, uye nguva. yekudzivirira.

Kubvunzana uku kwanga kusiri kwepamusoro: Martin ndiye katsi yekutanga mumhuri medu. Vana pavakanga vachiri vaduku, taiva nema hamster, guinea pig nemaparrots.

Martin akabva angove favourite yemunhu wese  

Kuona katsi, kutarisa mumaziso ake, ini, zvinoshamisa, ndakanga ndisingapikisani zvachose kuti akagara nesu. Kunyange zvazvo, kutaura chokwadi, ini pachangu ndingadai ndisina kumbosarudza kutora danho rakadaro. Uye pano - yakaiswa pamberi pechokwadi!

Pakarepo, mwanasikana ndiye akanga ari tenzikadzi akakodzera wekatsi. Akatamba naye zvakanyanya, akatamba, akaenda kuna vet. Katsi yakabaiwa nhomba uye yabviswa. Makore mashoma apfuura, Irina akatamira kuCzech Republic. Chese chekuchengeta chipfuyo chakawira pandiri nemwanakomana wangu. Zvakaoma kutaura kuti ndiani waanorangarira tenzi wake, waanoda zvakanyanya. Alexey anonyanya kuomesera Martin. Kana mwanakomana akati “Kwete”, zvinoreva kuti “kwete”. Katsi haitore nguva dzose kurambidza kwangu zvakakomba. Tose mwanakomana wangu neni tinoda kuizunza. Kana ndikatsikisa katsi kana mhuka yaraswa kwairi, ipapo Lesha anoda iyo paanoda. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, Martin anogona kusunungura nzwara, taura zvinotyisa "Meow" uye kutiza.

Iyo katsi iri nyore kwazvo uye haina kuzvikudza mukutarisira.

Martin kubva paudiki akaratidza unhu hwake hwose hwakanakisisa. Akangwara! Pakarepo akatanga kuenda kutray. Uye hakuna kumbova ne "misses" ipi neipi!

Akachinja zviri nyore kubva pamukaka wemukaka kuti aomesa chikafu, akakurumidza kujaira kukwenya post. Kazhinji, Martin murume mukuru akatsvinda, akashambidzika, anofarira kuve nekurongeka. 

Chokwadi, kukwezva kutarisa kwangu, katsi inogona kukwenya pasofa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti yave nguva yekumudyisa kana kumupuruzira.

Tsika dzekatsi dzinofanirwa kuverengerwa 

Martin i100% yemusha. Kunyanya kwaanogona kusvika pachake ndiko kumhara. Kumuendesa kune vet muedzo chaiwo kwatiri uye kushungurudzika kukuru kwemhuka. Anoridza mhere zvekuti mukova wese umhanye kutarisa zvatiri kuita nekatsi. Naizvozvo, kana uchienda kuzororo, ndapota tarisira vavakidzani vaMartin. Hazvina musoro kumutakura kuenda naye kuhama kana kuti kuhotera yemhuka dzinovaraidza.

Katsi yokuparadzana inotsungirira noushingi. Patinodzoka, anogona, chokwadi, kuratidza kuti akagumburwa ... Asi zvakadaro, anoratidza mufaro zvakanyanya. Ino“pararira” pasi petsoka dzako, ichirira… Uye unofanira kuipuruzira, kuipuruzira… Kwenguva refu, refu. Uyezve, misangano yakadaro yatova tsika nesu. Uye hazvina basa kana iwe wakaenda kwevhiki, kana kubva pamba kweawa chete.

Akadzikama uye akazvimiririra. Unofanira kuedza kuiridza. Pane imwe nguva, Martin aisamurega achirara usiku, uye manheru takaedza “kumurovedza” zvishoma kuti aneta. Vakamukanda bhora. Martin akamhanya achimutevera katatu, ndokurara akamirira kuti abude.

Asi kana chimwe chisikwa chipenyu chichibhururuka nepahwindo - chipfukuto, butterfly, nhunzi - ipapo kugona kwake kunozviratidza! Zvichida mumhuri yake maiva nevavhimi. Kana Martin achidzingirira mumwe munhu, chenjera: zvese zvinotsvairwa munzira!

Asi katsi haifariri kutamba nevana. Aitoda kuhwanda pasi pekugezera pane kuvarega vachibvarura!

Matambudziko api amakasangana nawo pakuchengeta katsi? 

Muchidimbu, Martin ikati isina matambudziko. Hutano hwakakwana. Pane imwe nguva airapwa nhata: akashambidzwa kakawanda ne shampoo inokosha. Ndaive ndofunga kuti nhata dzabva nepi mukatsi isingabvi pamba. Vevet vakati isu pachedu tinogona kuvaunza neshangu ...

Uye neimwe nzira pakanga paine allergy. Katsi yakabvarura nzeve nedumbu. Ndakatozochinja chikafu. Kuchinja kubva pakaoma kusvika kune zvakasikwa. Iye zvino ndinomubikira porridge, ndozvirunga nenyama kana hove. Ndinorima oats pahwindo rangu.

Anewo makushe akawanda. Unofanira kugeza uriri kakawanda. Asi ane fluffy nesu, uye, nerombo rakanaka, isu hatisi aleji!

Purring - zvekunakidzwa: yake neyangu

Kare katsi yairara nguva dzose neni kana nemwanakomana wangu. Asi chirimo ichi chakaerekana chamira. Pamwe nekuda kwekupisa. Munguva ichangopfuura, ndakarwara zvikuru, uye katsi yakauya kwandiri zvakare. Zvinoita sokuti akanzwa kushata kwandakaita, akaedza kupora nokudziya kwake.

Martin anewo kudzikamisa mhedzisiro. Kana ndikatya, ndinonetseka pamusoro pechimwe chinhu, ndinotora katsi mumaoko angu, ndoipuruzira, uye inotinhira uye inotinhira ... Mukutinhira uku, matambudziko anonyungudika neimwe nzira, uye ndinodzikama.

Dzimwe nguva ndinombozvibvunza kuti: ari kupopota nokuti ari kunzwa zvakanaka here kana kuti kuti ndifare? Sezviri pachena, shure kwezvose, isu tose tinowana mufaro: Ndinomurova, ndinodemba, anopindura achipindura.

Chokwadi chinonakidza

Maziso aMartin wekatsi aive eblue. Uye iko zvino vatsvuka, uye dzimwe nguva vanoshanduka vakasvibira kana kutsvuka. Pane zvazvinoenderana nazvo, handizive. Pamwe kubva mukushanduka kwemamiriro ekunze kana hunhu…